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A Love Half Full | AlmostFearless.com
The beginning of the story could be mine. The ending is not. My ex-husband and I did not weather that storm.

In this post, Kim Dinan shares her story of suddenly finding herself uphappy with the white picket dream. Kim and her husband Brian recently sold their house and all of their possessions. In June of 2012 they will be quitting their jobs and taking off to travel slowly around the world. Kim writes about their journey at So Many Places. Catch Kim on Twitter.

We both had deeper healing to do apart before we could find our own paths again. But I do not view this as failure. I spoke up about my inner voice, and knew he couldn’t come along. We parted, and my deepening into life has continued with him as a long-distance sometimes friend. The real success in your story from my perspective is your courage to express your authentic voice. That your wonderful husband is willing and able to align with that is very sweet and rich icing on the cake. Thank you for sharing and inspiring.. Read more on Unhappily Married

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What Can You Learn From the Marriages Around You?
When you do think of a happily married couple you are familiar with, what do you notice. How do they treat one another. How do they behave.

It’s important to notice what types of couples you tend to surround yourself with. If you tend to have mostly divorced or Unhappily Married couples in your social circle, it can have a negative impact on your view of marriage. If hearing complaints tends to become normalized, it can cause you to join in at times and actually start to impact your relationship.

Happily married couples tend to have many more positive interactions with one another. You may see them talk positively to their partner through compliments. They may offer one another support. They may appear to be more physically affectionate. They also are likely to work together better.

The fact that hes asked you to marry him, after only three months, and still lives with his wife and son is perhaps the biggest red flag of all. Lets say he actually proposed, ring and all (because if he didnt, hes only telling you what he thinks will make you stay with him). After being in such an unhappy marriage for so long, you must seem like a ray of sunshine and hes attaching his happiness to you.

The Question: Ive been with a man for three months, and am finally coming out of the honeymoon stage of our relationship and starting to think clearly. For starters, hes separated from his wife, but still Married. He told me that he lived with a guy friend and only stayed at his house sometimes. Turns out he lives at his house full time, but he swears hes not sleeping with his wife and that they live in separate quarters. He also hit on a co-worker a few days before meeting me. I found out about it after he declared his love for me, so I dismissed it.

While Im sure that feels awesome, in the long run his existing problems will surface and what then. This situation is also extremely unfair to you. When you dreamed of getting engaged, was it to a Married man. If he were a gentleman, and considered your feelings, he wouldn’t put you in this position.

It started off with a well-written, well-acted look into the living room of Maureen Coyne and Alan Badger as an ordinary couple, talking to each other about family conflicts in a way you will find totally familiar, as they wait for the arrival of a taxi for the airport in ‘Waiting to Go.’ Steve North returns with another of his insightful, inciting monologues, this time with at tale of two dogs, a couple of people, the tragedy of everyday life, and an off-the-cuff, straight-from-the-heart tribute to all our veterans on the 11/11/11 day of this performance. Program manager, playwright, director, and actress Suzanne Birrell came up with a seriously funny ‘Saturday in the Park with Vic’ involving an innocuous photographer and two loopy birdwatchers who overhear his half of a cell-phone conversation. Rick Roitinger and Claudia Rosa are two lonely people who take adjacent benches in a city park week after week, and never quite connect in ‘Love Birds,’ sympathetically directed by Carol Eggers.

After intermission, we watch the slow dissolution, the song and dance of two Unhappily Married couples trying to find ‘The Perfect Step.’ Rick Roitinger and Claudia Rosa return to the stage to the very compelling medical tragedy, the conflict between the miracle of modern medicine and the love of a mother for her child that knows no bounds in Kenneth J. Nugent’s'The Finger,’ superbly directed by Tim Giugni. The evening ends on a lighter note, the pilgrimage of a seeker to the mountain home of a mystical guru whose wisdom is conveyed in goofy jokes that belie its true depth. ‘Everything is beautiful, because we’re doomed. If you’re living, you should be smiling.’.

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The Meanest Jesus Ever « Diary of a Wimpy Catholic
Philip Roth wrote that hearing Jesus had been Jewish left him about as cold as hearing Cary Grant had been Jewish: neither seemed believable enough to matter. Roth didn’t elaborate, but I have a feeling he was reacting to the visual evidence; Jesus rarely stares out from pictures with the features of, say, Adam Sandler, Larry Fine, or for that matter, Philip Roth. That’s okay by me.

In O’Connor’s words, what Parker goes back to is ‘the haloed head of a flat, stern Byzantine Christ with all-demanding eyes.’ Parker decides it’s for him. Once completed, the tattooed image affects people in the most alarming ways. A single glance, with the help of an angled mirror, is enough to drive Parker himself to the corner for a pint of whiskey. Later, when he shows it off to his old cronies, their laughter drives puts him in a rage, which he expresses with his fists, leading to his ejection from the bar. When she finally gets a look, Sarah Ruth, claiming not to recognize the figure as God, damns Parker for an idolater and thrashes his back with a broom, raising welts on Jesus’ India-ink image and driving Parker out of the house. He ends up ‘leaning against tree, crying like a baby.’.

If I may spill a trade secret, many of us children of Israel follow our own version of the ‘yellow is mellow’ aesthetic. When we say to one another, of some celebrity rumored or revealed to belong to the Tribe, ‘(S)he doesn’t look Jewish.’, we’re expressing admiration, and a touch of envy. Roth himself is far from immune. In the Nordic good looks of Seymour ‘Swede’ Levov, his American Pastoral hero, one catches more than a hint of wish-fulfillment. Read more on Unhappily Married

You say you’re unhappy, please; you’re the one thats making your home a living hell and your wife unhappy because of your selfishness. You’re an over-indulgent, narcissistic, self-serving, misogynist who wants to have his way or no way. You Married you wife but don’t know why.

hello Doug and company i want to say i love you all daily this letter for me has left me speechless he has clearly statement he doesn’t love his wife and regrets have ever Married her .Is he serious . why stay . while she loving he is destroying her and make it bad for her ;she will never know real love because of the damage he has caused her .to me that is a sad excuse for a man there is no dilemma just deceit from the very beginning he will reap what he sows until he makes this right and how he can do that is for a change TRY BEING HONEST…… try that on for size it may work.

I’m sure you do know why; but you don’t want to face the real answers because that would put you in a bad light; so you come here and play the victim. Before you Married what happened. Were you in jeopardy of losing her and the only way to keep her was to marry her. Maybe thats the reason why you got Married. Then after marriage you figured you could mess around on your wife because unlike you shes in love and committed to the relationship. I think the only reason why youre annoyed is because youre restless with having the same flavor every night and you grave variety. The fact that you went to a therapist and had sex with her tells a lot about your lack of moral standards, control, and your need for immediate gratification and damn with everybody and everything else. Leave her… I hope your wife leaves your sorry behind first because she’s the one who has been misled and deceived by you.

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Latest Ashley Madison Controversy | guirestaurant.com
As you can see, the advertisement above implies the fact that not only are fat women scary but that as a guy you have the right to cheat on your wife or girlfriend if she’s overweight. While this ad has most likely resonated well with the its target audience (that being men who are Unhappily Married), there are a lot of people who are quite unhappy with this, including the woman who is in the advertisement. Apparently she had never meant for her photo to be used in such a way.

Ashley Madison has found itself in the hot seat yet again with it’s latest ad that ridicules fat women. The site, which is no stranger to controversy due to the fact that it’s meant to set up married people with the chance to have an affair, has now stirred the pot with its latest ad which has been labelled as vile and sexist.

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Weasel Zippers » Blog Archive » Egyptian Cleric: The Jews Killed ...
‘Those who do not believe in Allah nor in the Akhirah, and do not accept the true faith must not be taken as friends. They are those who do not submit to what has been forbidden by Allah and His Prophet SAW. Here, the prohibitions by Allah and by the Holy Prophet SAW have been given the same status.

Yep, I knew those Jews were behind this. Not us Muslims’whoops, I mean, THOSE Muslims. The ‘Religion of Peace’ and all that, right. The Jews are the violent ones. After all, who made Hitler kill so many of them. Didn’t the rabbis beg Hitler to set up the camps so they could sell them bad matzohs. (It is ‘matzohs,’ right. The Jews wait for me to say it and I can see them laughing at my foreign accent.) How many Jews tried to kill Stalin, Lenin. Didn’t the Jews launch the Korean War. Wasn’t Roosevelt’s Secretary of State a Jew. I know Nixon’s was ‘ and Nixon INVADED Vietnam. And he tried to sell Alaska to China. All for oil, the bastard.

This is because the commands of Holy Prophet SAW are indeed the Injunctions of Allah and a denier of these Injunctions will be dealt with through Jihad. The People of the Book, because of their denial of certain aspects of Islam, also fall in the same category. Jihad will be waged against all such repudiators, until they surrender and accept to live in subjugation in the Islamic State, paying Jizyah’ Four aspects have been mentioned here (1) belief in Allah, (2) belief in the Akhirah, (3) acceptance of the Divine categorisation of the Forbidden and the Permissible and (4) acceptance of Islam as the Din. Where any one of these four aspects is missing, such people will be obliged to pay Jizyah and live as subordinates in an Islamic State. Otherwise Jihad will be waged against them, in order to rid the State of this wickedness’ Belief in Allah is valid only when it is accompanied by a belief in His attributes as taught by the Holy Prophet SAW. If someone deviates from this rule and believes in his own way, it will amount to not believing at all. Just as the People of the Book believed in Allah and the Akhirah, but attributed progeny to Him. The Jews claimed that Prophet ‘Uzair AS was Allah’s son while the Christians believed the same for Prophet ‘Isa AS. They made such a preposterous statement without any evidence. May Allah destroy them for their insistence upon such blasphemy. Every nation in its own way holds some image of Allah, which cannot be accepted as a proof of believing in Him. Therefore, Jihad will be undertaken against such people unless they pay Jizyah, a tax which the Muslim ruler levies at his discretion in return for the non believers’ safety in the Islamic State. Since Jizyah replaces the death penalty for disbelief, its payment will absolve the payer from capital punishment’ The People of the Book were also guilty of taking their religious leaders as God, in the sense that they gave greater weightage to their words even if they contradicted the Divine Commandments and practised accordingly, as if they had accepted their leaders as their Rabb. The Christians formally worshipped Prophet ‘Isa, which was a ridiculous thing to do because he himself had taught people to worship Allah Alone. The fact is that no one save Allah deserves to be worshipped, He being the Most Exalted and the Most Magnificent’ Indeed Allah is the Being Who raised the Holy Prophet SAW with guidance and the true faith to ensure its sway over all ungodly religions, no matter how bad the polytheists may feel’ This Ayah serves not only as a harbinger to the dominance of Islam but also claims that Islam has come only to prevail and remain dominant in the world. The reason for this is that the Holy Prophet SAW has presented the best solutions for every problem of human life. He has taught the best possible way of executing its affairs, whether political, fiscal, moral or mutual, in complete harmony with the human temperaments. And all this has been declared as the true Din’ o conduct one’s affairs in the light of the truth is Din and this practical aspect of Islam is indeed the reason for its prevalence’Therefore, every sentient person will accept this true faith and it shall prevail over the other religions of the world. History bears witness to the victory of Islam over the ungodly religions and its complete sway over the globe’ Even today, if we resolve to subordinate our practical lives to Islam, it is Allah’s Promise to bless the Muslims with dominance over the entire world.’. Read more on Unhappily Married

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